tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-58889056558755542412024-02-20T13:52:42.995-05:00The Last Gilded Rose for AthieThis blog is an attempt to memorialize our parents and right the wrongs done to them, and hopefully, by making readers aware of what can happen, we can protect other elderly parents who could fall victim to their own family members.
Copyright applied forKing Familyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04017471043462249637noreply@blogger.comBlogger66125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5888905655875554241.post-61574227579817099102012-04-29T15:26:00.000-04:002012-04-29T15:26:20.458-04:00King Familyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04017471043462249637noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5888905655875554241.post-48574148075591106782012-01-15T17:55:00.002-05:002012-01-16T15:48:31.862-05:00Lipstick on a Pig<div style="margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhE5_Lgd_41nIXHzySqsNqglR6k4kCvSWnbydIRRk_TVbVPF1fmrMxWDLFgKj87I_eDz84-Ha2ByxYpvlWvtJbpDluqKNcl4zvL0GsJb_DL3Vehw2KakJ6FD9hmm-x2XYswHTl7iz9NuL4U/s1600/Current+pix+of+EKJ.jpg"><img alt="" border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhE5_Lgd_41nIXHzySqsNqglR6k4kCvSWnbydIRRk_TVbVPF1fmrMxWDLFgKj87I_eDz84-Ha2ByxYpvlWvtJbpDluqKNcl4zvL0GsJb_DL3Vehw2KakJ6FD9hmm-x2XYswHTl7iz9NuL4U/s320/Current+pix+of+EKJ.jpg" /></a> </div><div style="clear: both; text-align: CENTER;"><a href="http://picasa.google.com/blogger/" target="ext"><img align="middle" alt="Posted by Picasa" border="0" src="http://photos1.blogger.com/pbp.gif" style="-moz-background-clip: initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: initial; -moz-background-origin: initial; background: transparent none repeat scroll 0% 50%; border: 0px none; padding: 0px;" /></a>You've heard the saying, "you can put lipstick on a pig". Translation is that you can try and make a pig look better with lipstick, but it's still a pig. She will never be able to buy enough lipstick to cover the person that abused my parents.</div>King Familyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04017471043462249637noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5888905655875554241.post-58769516209291918422011-08-19T11:30:00.007-04:002011-08-19T12:13:03.966-04:00New Video1/26/11 The dog <span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y7jRBFyJ56I&feature=youtube_gdata" style="color: #0000cc;" target="_blank">http://www.youtube.com/watch?<wbr></wbr>v=Y7jRBFyJ56I&feature=youtube_<wbr></wbr>gdata</a></span><br />
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King Familyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04017471043462249637noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5888905655875554241.post-46793128975179501092011-06-14T17:14:00.005-04:002011-07-02T07:54:26.283-04:00Meet elizabeth<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GYb8aPyRhqo&feature=youtube_gdata">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GYb8aPyRhqo&feature=youtube_gdata</a><br />
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I want something definitive regarding Judge Tammy"s ruling. Wayne and I are tippy-toeing around and our sister is plowing through with a Mac Truck.<br />
Word that she might loose guardianship of father due to bad behavior has not reached her.<br />
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Mother is on oxygen 24/7, plus has oxygen treatments every two hours. Her lungs do not expel. <span class="yshortcuts" id="lw_1285792293_0" style="color: #366388;">Two weeks</span> ago Elizabeth wanted to take her out and park her under a <span class="yshortcuts" id="lw_1285792293_1" style="color: #366388;">pear tree</span> in full bloom. While daddy mowed. Do you have any idea what the pollen count is in the flats??? Under a blooming pear tree, surrounded by blooming dogwoods, etc.<br />
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Same visit, when the caregiver was in the bathtub, Elizabeth attempted to move mother, and dropped her. She eventually had to have the caregiver get mother up...then drove off to <span class="yshortcuts" id="lw_1285792293_2" style="color: #366388;">Ohio</span>. I was there a couple of hours later and mother was extremely quiet, with her eyes closed. The next day the caregiver told me what happened because mother had begun to moan and cry. I had her picked up via ambulance for x-rays. She could not sit up at all. The ambulance picked her up at <span class="yshortcuts" id="lw_1285792293_3" style="border-bottom-color: rgb(54, 99, 136); border-bottom-style: dotted; border-bottom-width: 2px; color: #366388; cursor: pointer;">5 p.m</span>. and she got home at 9:30. No broken bones, but concussions around the hips and pelvic area.<br />
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And now Elizabeth has locked my mother's 83 year old sister out of the house.<br />
And she's calling Dr. Litton, trying to take mother out for another ride!<br />
The last "ride" just about killed my mother. A three hour trip to get an ice cream! That resulted in mother being diagnosed with "<span class="yshortcuts" id="lw_1285792293_4" style="border-bottom-color: rgb(54, 99, 136); border-bottom-style: dotted; border-bottom-width: 2px; color: #366388; cursor: pointer;">congestive heart failure</span>". Prior to that, a trip to <span class="yshortcuts" id="lw_1285792293_5" style="color: #366388;">Wal-Mart</span> put mother on anti-biotics for 18 days.<br />
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What in God's name do we have to do with this situation??? I ask you. Wayne and I both have consulted every last authority in Lee County and they all said "get your dad's guardianship'. Well, that didn't work.<br />
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Please pursue what Judge Tammy had on her fluffy little brain. I am willing to file for divorce on mother's behalf. Or, something. This must end. I have had it.<br />
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Barbara Lochner, </div></div>King Familyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04017471043462249637noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5888905655875554241.post-61487611153438149582011-02-07T10:43:00.017-05:002011-09-23T06:19:42.061-04:00May 9,2008 Daddy's Condition<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333; font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px;">> From: Liz <</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><a href="https://mail.google.com/mail/?view=cm&fs=1&tf=1&to=lizkingjones@yahoo.com" style="color: #336699; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank" ymailto="mailto:lizkingjones@yahoo.com">lizkingjones@yahoo.com</a></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">> Subject: My fathers health</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
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</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">> Cc:</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><a href="https://mail.google.com/mail/?view=cm&fs=1&tf=1&to=akinser@montgomerylaw.com" style="color: #336699; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank" ymailto="mailto:akinser@montgomerylaw.com"><span class="yshortcuts" id="lw_1285754720_3" style="color: #366388;">akinser@montgomerylaw.com</span></a></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">,</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><a href="https://mail.google.com/mail/?view=cm&fs=1&tf=1&to=skwiselaw@hotmail.com" style="color: #336699; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank" ymailto="mailto:skwiselaw@hotmail.com"><span class="yshortcuts" id="lw_1285754720_4" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-color: transparent; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(54, 99, 136); border-bottom-style: dotted; border-bottom-width: 2px; color: #366388; cursor: pointer;">skwiselaw@hotmail.com</span></a></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">> Date: Friday, May 9, 2008, 2:49 PM</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
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</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">> father has extremely high bloodpressure and CHF he is in</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">> danger of a stroke or</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><span class="yshortcuts" id="lw_1285754720_5" style="color: #366388;">heart attack</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">if he is upset in any</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">> way. Because BOTH of my parents are important to me,</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">> Charlsie Stearly is not to come into this house or on</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">> the property, unless she has been invited. I thought</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">> Officer Graham made that clear to her last Monday.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">> I did give her a chance to visit Mother this morning</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">> while I was at the</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><span class="yshortcuts" id="lw_1285754720_6" style="color: #366388;">Cardiologist</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">in Wise with Dad, but she</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">> declined.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">> Wayne, I do not appreciate you putting Remy in a bad</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">> position this afternoon by sneaking Charlsie into the house</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">> while I was away. She has been given instructions to</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">> call the Sheriff if Charlsie comes back to the house</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">> uninvited.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">> If, I need to, I will seek a restraining order.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;"><b>elizabeth, her attorney, C. Adam Kinser and Daddy's ad litem Gregory Edwards convinced the judge that Daddy's condition was serious enough that seeing Charlsie, Mother's sister could cause him to go into cardiac arrest.</b></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;"><b>Six months later elizabeth took Daddy to the intersection of our property, had our father put a cube (400) of bricks which had been there 4 yrs and move them 15 feet to my rear driveway. Based on the above email, a reasonable person would conclude she tried to kill him. Of course, again, after doing something resulting in them being put in the hospital, elizabeth would take off to Ohio, so if they died, she wouldn't be there, probably so she could blame it on a caregiver. </b></span><br />
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</span>King Familyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04017471043462249637noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5888905655875554241.post-15266368088720669372011-02-04T08:35:00.000-05:002011-02-04T08:35:30.356-05:00Elder Abuse - Financial<span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">Elder Abuse</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">Allan N. Schwartz, LCSW, Ph.D. Updated: Jul 7th 2007</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
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</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"> Financial exploitation is the fourth type of abuse and can occur at</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">the hands of family or strangers who learn how to prey upon what they</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">view as easy victims to be exploited. Ruthless and greedy family</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">members also prey upon their elderly parents and grandparents by</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">convincing them to turn over their money to them, ostensibly so that</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">they can oversee and protect the funds. Too often this becomes an</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">excuse to steal the funds for their own selfish purposes.</span>King Familyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04017471043462249637noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5888905655875554241.post-75032364336208097032011-02-01T18:05:00.000-05:002011-03-20T15:56:14.737-04:00Ltr to Judge Quillen 4.20.09<div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">Honorable Ford <span style="background-color: #dbf0fa; color: #222222;">Quillen</span></span></span></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">c/o Scott County Clerk of Courts</span></span></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">104 E. Jackson St.</span></span></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">Suite 2</span></span></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">Gate City, Virginia</span></span></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">24251</span></span></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">Date: April 20, 2009</span></span></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">To: Judge Ford <span style="background-color: #dbf0fa; color: #222222;">Quillen</span></span></span></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">From: Larry Wayne King</span></span></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">Subject: Judicial Irregularities</span></span></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;"> </span></span><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">Guardianship Hearing of Clarence and Athelene King, Lee County, Virginia</span></span></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
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</div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">I am no longer represented by the Sturgill & Kennedy Law Offices.</span></span></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">This is an attempt to ensure my representatives from the Sturgill & Kennedy Law Offices, during the time they represented my sister, Barbara Lochner, and myself, presented critical pieces of information to you regarding potential perjury charges against Tammy Williams and Elizabeth King-Jones during those behind the scene chamber meetings. The Tammy Williams perjury incident occurred in Judge Tammy S. McElyea's court.</span></span></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">In attempting to obtain guardianship of our mother, Athelene King, in May, 2007, </span></span><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">Elizabeth King-Jones enlisted Tammy Williams to be guardian of Athelene King because Elizabeth King-Jones lived out-of-state. It was determined that the oldest sibling, Barbara Lochner, who was living in California, was moving to Lee County by July 1. Judge McElyea, during the interim six weeks, made Mrs. Williams co-guardian. During the hearing to have Barbara Lochner made Athelene King's guardian, Mrs. Williams stated, under oath, that she visited Mrs. King's house every other day for six weeks and during the off days, she called. Judge </span></span><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">McElyea, based on Mrs. Williams testimony, had her continue as co-guardianship with Barbara Lochner. There were five witnesses who knew that was a lie. One or more of the witness's was around Mrs. King 24-hours a day during the entire six weeks. Mrs. Williams visited one time during the six weeks and that was to cut Mrs. King's hair.</span></span></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">On two separate occasions, Judge McElyeas's court made last minute changes that prevented perjury testimony against Tammy Williams. The first was when all witnesses were seated outside the courtroom waiting to testify. </span></span><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">The second was at Kinser's Law Offices with all the same witnesses waiting to be deposed. Neither time were they given the opportunity to testify. When we asked Jeff Sturgill, our attorney, what happened during the time the witness were outside the court room and the attorneys went into chambers, </span></span><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">we were told Judge McElyea said, “Well, mistakes were made” and “all that is behind us now”. Judge McElyea, was a friend/acquaintance of Tammy Williams. </span></span><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">Still, this behavior by Judge McElyeas ultimately cost the family 10's of $1,000 in attorney fees having Elizabeth placed as guardian of daddy in the same house as mother. The end result was that two weeks before mother passed away, Joe Rasnic, mother's ad litem, called and said that Dr. Scott Litton and he wanted mother out of the house, away from Elizabeth, or they would put her in a nursing home. The hazardous situation, while created by Elizabeth's behavior, was exacerbated by</span></span><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">fact that the home health care company canceled their contract because they felt that Elizabeth posed a threat to the personal safety of their workers. Mother passed away in my house. </span></span><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">My father continues to live in his house where Elizabeth has moved in. </span></span><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">I have no knowledge of what she is doing with or to my father, but I do know that she has not taken him back to the neurologist -even though she was told to come back in 6 months- since August, 2007.</span></span></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">It wasn't your court, so once this is off the docket, I will file a complaint with the Judicial Inquiry and Review Commission and let them sort it out.</span></span></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">The following excerpts (copies of the full summaries are enclosed) are taken from medical summaries, by date, from my father's visits to his neurologists dating back to October, 2005. Also, shown below are 2 pages of a deposition of Elizabeth King-Jones where she stated that our father doesn't have Alzheimer's disease, which is in direct contradiction to his neurologists </span></span><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">diagnosis. Needless to say, we believe Elizabeth's intent was to try and show our father was mentally capable of changing his will.</span></span></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">The following is a chronological time line of Clarence King's diagnoses of Alzheimer's:</span></span></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><u><span style="font-size: small;">October 6, 2005</span></u></span><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;"> – Original visit to Neurologist Daniel Garber, prompted by me calling Dr Molony, daddy's primary physician and reporting his multiple day disorientation . Referenced </span></span><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">in Dr Garber's </span></span><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">summary of April 4, 2006. (taken for testing by myself)</span></span></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><u><span style="font-size: small;">February, 2006 –</span></u></span> <span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><b><i><span style="font-size: small;">Unknown to me (living next door to my parents) Elizabeth drove mother and </span></i></b></span><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><b><i><span style="font-size: small;">daddy to George Cridlin and had daddy give her his sole POA and joint POA with me for mother.</span></i></b></span></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><u><span style="font-size: small;">April 4, 2006</span></u></span><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;"> - Visit summary of Clarence King by Daniel Garber, MD, Associated Neurologists of Kingsport, (referencing his original visit of October 6, 2005): progressive symptoms of mild vascular dementia and dementia of Alzheimer's </span></span><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><i><span style="font-size: small;">for two to four years.</span></i></span></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">Dr Garber states, “I think that he will obviously have this condition for the rest of his life and it will continue to get worse.”</span></span></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><u><span style="font-size: small;">August 4, 2006</span></u></span><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;"> – Dr. Garber mentioned that his daughter (Elizabeth) is with him. Overall assessment of general medical condition, again diagnosing daddy's condition of “Dementia with components of senile dementia of Alzheimer's type and vascular. Multiple different </span></span><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">issues concerning his dementia has been discussed.”</span></span></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px; text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">-</span></span><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><b><span style="font-size: small;">Insert by lwk for informational purposes only-</span></b></span></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">The following is a description of Alzheimer's disease and a list of vascular dementia symptoms from the Alzheimer's Association web site:</span></span></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="color: #343637; font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">A. Alzheimer's disease is a</span></span><span style="color: #343637; font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;"> </span></span><span style="color: #343637; font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">progressive and</span></span><span style="color: #343637; font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;"> </span></span><span style="color: #343637; font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">fatal brain disease.</span></span><span style="color: #343637; font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;"> </span></span><span style="color: #343637; font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;"> </span></span><span style="color: #343637; font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">Alzheimer's</span></span><span style="color: #343637; font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;"> </span></span><span style="color: #343637; font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">destroys brain cells, causing problems with memory, thinking and behavior severe enough to affect</span></span><span style="color: #343637; font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;"> </span></span><span style="color: #343637; font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">work, lifelong hobbies or social life.</span></span><span style="color: #343637; font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;"> </span></span><span style="color: #343637; font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">Alzheimer’s gets worse over time, and it is fatal. Today it is the </span></span><span style="color: #343637; font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">sixth-leading cause of death in the United States.</span></span><span style="color: #343637; font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;"> </span></span></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">B. Symptoms of vascular dementia:</span></span></div><ul style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-top: 0px;" type="disc"><li style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 15px; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="color: #343637; font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">Memory problems may or may not be a prominent symptom, depending on whether brain regions important in memory are affected.</span></span></li>
<li style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 15px; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="color: #343637; font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">Confusion, which may get worse at night.</span></span></li>
<li style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 15px; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="color: #343637; font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">Difficulty concentrating, planning, communicating and following instructions.</span></span></li>
<li style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 15px; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="color: #343637; font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">Reduced ability to carry out daily activities.</span></span></li>
<li style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 15px; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="color: #343637; font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">Physical symptoms associated with strokes, such as sudden weakness, difficulty speaking or confusion.</span></span></li>
<li style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 15px; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="color: #343637; font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">Magnetic resonance imaging (MRI) of the brain may show characteristic abnormalities associated with vascular damage.</span></span></li>
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</div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><u><span style="font-size: small;">April, 2007</span></u></span><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;"> – </span></span><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><b><i><span style="font-size: small;">Give or take 30 days, Elizabeth drove daddy to George Cridlin's office, stayed </span></i></b></span><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><b><i><span style="font-size: small;">with him in the office and had daddy disinherit mother, Gail and myself and make her his sole heir.</span></i></b></span></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><u><span style="font-size: small;">May 28, 2007</span></u></span><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;"> – Kristie Nies, Ph.D, Clinical Psychologist, specializing in mental health, performed a neuropsych evaluation and she felt that daddy was “at </span></span><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><i><span style="font-size: small;">increased accidental self injury and victimization secondary to cognitive dysfunction and recommended continuous provision and assistance.” </span></i></span><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">(included in Dr. C.A. Pendola's summary of August 31, 2007)</span></span></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><u><span style="font-size: small;">August 31, 2007</span></u></span><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;"> – Visit summary by C. A. Pendola, M.D., Neurologist. Recapping Dr. Nies of May 28, 2007 confirming the report, that includes, “The daughter states that she is well aware of her recommendation. I once again review these with Mr. King and his daughter.”</span></span></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">Dr. Pendola's impressions include “Chronic dementia likely mixed with a combination of Alzheimer's disease and vascular dementia disease”.</span></span></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">In #4, Dr. Pendola asked for daddy to come back in six months. Needless to say, Elizabeth never took daddy back.</span></span></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">I verbally verified with the offices of Neurologists of Kingsport and Dr. Nies's office that copies of all summaries were sent to Dr. Molony's office.</span></span></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><u><span style="font-size: small;">December 3, 2007</span></u></span><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;"> – Deposition of Elizabeth King-Jones taken on December 3, 2007 in Jonesville, Virginia at Montgomery Kinser law offices. Exerts of Pages 12 & 13:</span></span></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">Q </span></span><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">Have you noticed any difference in your dad's condition in between those interval?</span></span></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">A </span></span><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">Well I, Ive noticed he's more frail than he was.</span></span></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">Q </span></span><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">Anything else?</span></span></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">A </span></span><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">His blood pressure is worse. He's had, well he was having some chest pains and I took him to a cardiologist when I was here in November.</span></span></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">Q </span></span><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">Anything else?</span></span></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">A </span></span><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">I'm not sure.</span></span></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">Q </span></span><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">Okay. As far as cognitive abilities have you noticed anything there?</span></span></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">A </span></span><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;"> </span></span><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">Other than his memory, no, he does have a poor memory.</span></span></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">Q </span></span><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">Have you talked to his doctors about it?</span></span></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">A </span></span><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">Yes, I have.</span></span></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">Q </span></span><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">Do you understand what his diagnosis is?</span></span></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">A </span></span><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">Yes, I do.</span></span></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">Q </span></span><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">What do you understand it to be?</span></span></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">A </span></span><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">Well, I was told by the girl that did his neuropsychiatric test two years ago, she told us that he had some dementia but she reversed that diagnosis because he actually, he had another</span></span></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">neuropsychiatric test in May and his condition has improved. He has improved and with dementia you don't improve.</span></span></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">I was also told that he does not have Alzheimer's. Now he has some symptoms of each one of those things but she said this last time that what he seemed to have was bilateral brain dysfunction which basically affects the memory.</span></span></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">Q </span></span><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">And who ------</span></span></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">A </span></span><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">So he does have a poor memory.</span></span></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">Q </span></span><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">Who is the she, who told you this?</span></span></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">A </span></span><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">Christy Nies.</span></span></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">Q </span></span><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">From?</span></span></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">A </span></span><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">From Kingsport.</span></span></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">Q </span></span><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">You </span></span><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">understand her to be in a neurology office?</span></span></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">A </span></span><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">Yes.</span></span></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">Since the above responses, under oath, seems to far exceed the judicial standard of “preponderance of evidence”, I would like for you to consider perjury charges against Elizabeth King-Jones.</span></span></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">I began this entire process May 14, 2007, with my visit to the Lee County Health and Human Services when Barbara and I were worried that Elizabeth was abusing our father. I was advised by Pamela Farr to file for guardianship, which we did. Because of the ensuing perjury</span></span></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">which the evidence here sets forth, my father has remained in this perilously situation and we have been helpless to remedy it. Perhaps if this issue were properly addressed our father's care would not be compromised.</span></span></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div>King Familyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04017471043462249637noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5888905655875554241.post-83532363473858079772011-02-01T16:16:00.001-05:002011-06-13T12:32:15.458-04:00Tammy Williams<div style="border-collapse: collapse; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: separate; font-family: Arial; font-size: 15px; white-space: pre-wrap;">Tammy Williams - Married to our 2nd cousin, daughter-in-law to Gary and Joyce Williams. Tammy worked in the Business Development Office in the Lee County Courthouse, prior beautician and appears to have a friendly relationship with attorneys and judges in the courthouse, both for working at the courthouse and “doing hair”. . Elizabeth King-Jones -because she lived out-of-state- had Tammy Williams to co-guardianship our Father, Clarence King and, for a temporary period of time, for Mother. Five people were willing to testify that Tammy Williams committed perjury on her testimony, a story that will be added later. She was daddy’s co-guardian when Elizabeth King-Jones emptied out mother and daddy’s savings, leaving mother penniless.</span></div></div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-top: 0px;"><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: separate; font-family: Arial; font-size: 15px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><br />
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</span></span></div></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: medium; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; white-space: normal;"><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">Martin P. Votel, Prosecuting Attorney</span></span></div></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: medium; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; white-space: normal;"><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">101 E. Main St.</span></span></div></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: medium; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; white-space: normal;"><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">Courthouse, First Floor</span></span></div></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: medium; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; white-space: normal;"><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">Eaton, OH 45320</span></span></div></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: medium; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; white-space: normal;"><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;"><br />
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</span></span></div></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: medium; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; white-space: normal;"><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">Dear Mr. Votel,</span></span></div></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: medium; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; white-space: normal;"><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;"><br />
</span></span></div></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: medium; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; white-space: normal;"><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">My sister, Barbara Lochner and I are asking for assistance in determining that our father is not being physically or financially abused by Elizabeth King-Jones, our sister who has our father's POA. They are both residing in Preble County, Ohio, she at 8213 US Route 35E, West Alexandria, Ohio 45381 and we are unsure of his physical location within the county.</span></span></div></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: medium; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; white-space: normal;"><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;"><br />
</span></span></div></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: medium; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; white-space: normal;"><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">Our parents are/was Clarence and Athelene King (decreased January 20, 2009). Our father has vascular dementia and Alzheimer's, mother eventually died of a stroke brought on by her primary symptoms of Cortical Basal Ganglionic Degeneration (CBGD).</span></span></div></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: medium; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; white-space: normal;"><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;"><br />
</span></span></div></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: medium; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; white-space: normal;"><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">Elizabeth King-Jones has a history of aggressive behavior and abuse against our parents. The abuse is a combination of physical, mental and financial. This is meant as an overview of EKJ's behavior regarding our parents, culminating in mother's ad litem, based on her doctor's recommendation, contacting me to remove mother from the house she was sharing with our father and EKJ (next door) because of EKJ's threating behavior. To support this, the following is a chronological order of events including non-family third parties that can collaborate the below.</span></span></div></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: medium; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; white-space: normal;"><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;"><br />
</span></span></div></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: medium; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; white-space: normal;"><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">1. October, 2005 our father, Clarence King was determined to have vascular dementia. Appendix A for Dr. Summaries.</span></span></div></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: medium; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; white-space: normal;"><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;"><br />
</span></span></div></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: medium; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; white-space: normal;"><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">2. February, 2006 Elizabeth King-Jones drove from West Alexandria, OH, to Pennington Gap, VA and without my knowledge while living next door, took our parents to have a sole POA for our father and a co-POA with me for our mother. Appendix B is a copy of my POA for our now deceased mother (January 20, 2009).</span></span></div></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: medium; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; white-space: normal;"><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;"><br />
</span></span></div></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: medium; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; white-space: normal;"><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">3. May, 2007 I visited the Lee County Health and Human Services Dept in Jonesville, VA and spoke with Pamela Farr regarding my suspicion that our sister, Elizabeth King-Jones was manipulating our father. Ms. Farr responded that the only way we could control this was to gain guardianship of our father.</span></span></div></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: medium; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; white-space: normal;"><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;"><br />
</span></span></div></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: medium; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; white-space: normal;"><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">4. We went to court in May, 2007, when EKJ filed for guardianship and conservatorship of our mother. During that court hearing (where Elizabeth King-Jones-a resident of Ohio at the time and herself ineligible to be appointed) used a cousin as the co-guardian. Under questioning from our attorney, Elizabeth King-Jones told the court that she had our father change his will within the last 30 days to make her the sole heir, disinheriting his wife of 65+yrs and the two other children, Barbara and myself. Tammy Williams (the cousin) was appointed guardian until we could bring it back to the court a few weeks later when Barbara moved nearby from California and was made conservator and co-guardian of our mother. Appendix C and C.1 is a copy of EKJ's deposition taken in December, 2007 regarding changing the will and his mental health.</span></span></div></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: medium; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; white-space: normal;"><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;"><br />
</span></span></div></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: medium; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; white-space: normal;"><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">5. September, 2007: Elizabeth King-Jones, for the next 5 months, collected a total of $14,000. from our father's long-term health insurance company-money paid to provide daily health care for him-which she kept. Therefore, Barbara and I had to pay the workers -part out of our mother's checking account and part out of our personal bank accounts -current investigation by your office.</span></span></div></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: medium; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; white-space: normal;"><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;"><br />
</span></span></div></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: medium; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; white-space: normal;"><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">6. October, 2007: With the only car in mother's name, Barbara was able stop our father from driving because of his deteriorating condition. Elizabeth King-Jones, within 2 weeks, purchased a van with our father's money, brought it down from Ohio, and within 24 hours after being given the van he drove it through the back of the garage, a room on the back of the house, and the outside deck. He came within a foot of running over a caregiver and with inches of a tree. The neighbor who heard the commotion ran over and pulled him out of the moving van as it was going in circles in a pasture (his foot was frozen to the gas pedal). Appendix D is a picture of the aftermath.</span></span></div></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: medium; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; white-space: normal;"><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;"><br />
</span></span></div></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: medium; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; white-space: normal;"><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">7. October, 2007: Elizabeth King-Jones, Tammy Williams and Clarence King removed $66,000 of mother's money that was co-owned by our father, but under court oversight and opened new accounts without mother's name, thereby stripping mother of all financial assets. It took a judge's demand to her attorney to have it returned 2 months later. Appendix E email of attorney correspondence.</span></span></div></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: medium; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; white-space: normal;"><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;"><br />
</span></span></div></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: medium; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; white-space: normal;"><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">8. November, 2007: Elizabeth King-Jones with a duplicate set of car keys, left the parents house at 12:00AM and went next door to our property where my mother's car was being kept. She rolled the car into the middle of the road to attempt to make mother's sister(whom she would not allow to enter the house to visit my mother) think she did it accidentally. Our father admitted this to Angela Petry (276-, Pennington Gap, VA, the caregiver, and the neighbor, Misti McCowan, (276 Pennington Gap, VA 24277, that saw EKJ leave the house. There were two teenage drivers on the downside of the car position in the road who could have hit the car in the dark (no street lights, crest of a hill, high speed area). Appendix F, is a picture of the car in the road.</span></span></div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;"><br />
</span></span></div></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: medium; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; white-space: normal;"><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: red;">(see car picture on post date of 09.09.09)</span></span></span></div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;"><br />
</span></span></div></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: medium; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; white-space: normal;"><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">9. December, 2007: Elizabeth King-Jones, without guardian's approval, removed mother from the house on a 3-hour car ride, in the winter, knowing that her diagnosis and condition was so fragile that it would be very dangerous. It was just one of a list of EKJ efforts to harm our mother. EKJ left town the next day prior to mother going to the hospital. Appendix G is Barbara's email to our attorney.</span></span></div></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: medium; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; white-space: normal;"><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;"><br />
</span></span></div></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: medium; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; white-space: normal;"><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">10. May, 2008 Elizabeth King-Jones, as father's POA, sent Barbara and me an email saying that father had extremely high blood pressure and congestive heart failure and could not be put under any stress, therefore, mother's 83 year old sister, and a retired RN, could not come on the property because it upset my father. Said if my aunt came on the property that she would call the sheriff. See attached. In December, 2008, 7 months after receiving the aforementioned email, EKJ took our father, on a walker, and between the two of them threw 400 bricks, which had been there 5 years, approximately 10 feet into my rear driveway because EKJ said it was on "her" property.The property is joint owned by Barbara, EKJ and myself Dad has a life estate. Within several days my father was in the Intensive Care Uniy of Lee Regional Hospital.</span></span></div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;"><br />
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</span></span></div></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: medium; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; white-space: normal;"><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">12. January, 2009 - I received a call from Joe Rasnic, Main St., Jonesville, VA, 276-346-4288, mother's court-appointed ad litem, saying he had talked to Dr. Scott Litton (mother's doctor) and they wanted mother removed immediately from the house because of ekj's threating behavior or they were going to place her in a nursing home. I moved mother and caregivers to our house next door. My mother passed away there 3 weeks later.</span></span></div></div><div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: medium; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; white-space: normal;"><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;"><br />
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</span></span></div></div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">Three extremely obese women from family svcs showed up at my apartment, approx <span class="yshortcuts" id="lw_1285760747_0" style="border-bottom-color: rgb(54, 99, 136); border-bottom-style: dotted; border-bottom-width: 2px; color: #366388; cursor: pointer;">2:30 p.m</span>. yesterday. There had been no prev calls, anything.</span></span></div></div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;"><br />
</span></span></div></div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">Only one of them talked. She only had two questions; one re daddy hitting and knocking down Charlsie last year, and the other re my refusal to let Eliz take mother joy-riding to her death in that stupid van that dad wrecked.</span></span></div></div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;"><br />
</span></span></div></div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;">They seemed shocked re other info I was only too happy to give them...my father leaving everything to Eliz in his new will, taking of the insurance money, etc. I told them that as far as I knew, the judge knew nothing about any of this as she refused to hear our case and decided the whole thing in the back room with our lawyers. This is unbelievable to them. I told them I could give them copies of Eliz statements in her deposition - and I had these copies at the ready - 30 seconds away - but they didn't want to get that involved.</span></span></div></div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Arial Unicode MS';"><span style="font-size: small;"><br />
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<span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Gary and Joyce Williams - Gary is the brother-in-law to Lee County Sheriff Gary Parsons and prior Chairman of the Lee County Republican Party. Lee County is almost wholly Republican, making him a very powerful man.</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Greg Edwards - Our father’s ad litem. Mr. Edwards, during the period of time he was ad litem, was the client of Montgomery and Kinser for a DUI. This is relevant because during an “unexpected” event in court, he said that daddy told him a joke so he must be competent. Thus C. Adam Kinser (Elizabeth’s attorney) won yet again and our father who had had dementia/Alzheimer’s for at least 6 years and had not been able to function well for several years-was declared competent. Thus Elizabeth victoriously walked away with everything mother and daddy had left for the 3 of us to share. More importantly, Elizabeth took daddy out of state and he disappeared from his family and friends until his death was reported in the Dayton Ohio paper a year and a half later.</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Larry King: Son of Clarence and Athelene King. For a year, he and his wife lived in the basement of his mom and dad’s house at his father’s request because Athelene had started falling and Clarence, being a frail, slight man, could not pick her up or take care of her needs. Larry and his wife built a house next to his mom and dad and continued taking care of their needs for 4+ years as they rapidly declined. </span><br />
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<span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Barbara Lochner: Daughter of Clarence and Athelene King who quit her successful job in California and moved to Pennington Gap in 2007 to take over the care of her parents so that Larry and his wife could move to GA and resume working.</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Elizabeth King-Jones: The youngest daughter of Clarence and Athelene King who blamed Barbara (who left home early to avoid a physically abusive father) and Larry (who joined the Navy at 17) for abandoning her. As she angrily said, “The two of you left me with that crazy man!”</span></div>King Familyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04017471043462249637noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5888905655875554241.post-35896389860519287472011-01-26T07:45:00.001-05:002011-08-19T11:26:15.111-04:00The dog<span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;"><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y7jRBFyJ56I&feature=youtube_gdata" style="color: #0000cc;" target="_blank">http://www.youtube.com/watch?<wbr></wbr>v=Y7jRBFyJ56I&feature=youtube_<wbr></wbr>gdata</a></span></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">Daddy's sister died and he became the owner of her dog. Her biggest</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">worry had been what would happen to her little black poodle when she</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">died, and only after Daddy promised to take care of it did she</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">peacefully slip away.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
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</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">By this time mother was completely bed ridden except for the few hours</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">a day the care givers maneuvered her into her wheelchair and pushed</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">her to her recliner in the den where she could enjoy the sunshine. It</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">was from that window that she witnessed Elizabeth dig up and burn her</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">beautiful rose garden.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
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</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">Anyway, on the third day after Daddy brought the dog home, he showed</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">up at our door with it. “I can't keep this dog,” he said. “It</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">whines. It messes in the house. We have a cat and we don't want a</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">dog. You have to take it.”</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
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</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">So just like that, he handed us the dog and disappeared. By this</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">time, he was deep into dementia and did not process very well. For</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">example, one day he would ask us to help him buy groceries for the</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">household, then the next he would go into screaming rants that we had</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">purchased food for the house. “I'm the head of this household,” he</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">would bellow at the top of his lungs. “I decide what to buy and when,</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">and I am perfectly capable of going to the grocery store!” When</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">reminded that he had asked us to buy groceries, he denied that he had.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"> His Alzheimerish behavior made him very difficult to deal with.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
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</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">So we were stuck with this dog. I called my sister Barbara Gail in</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">CA. She was the world's greatest animal lover and had 3 dogs of her</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">own. She immediately booked a flight to Tri-Cities Airport and rented</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">a car and drove to The Flats. There she stayed for a week visiting</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">mother and daddy and driving the dog around in the car to acclimate</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">her to the airplane trip that lay ahead.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
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</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">Fast forward to 2008</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
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</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">Elizabeth decided that mother needed a dog, so she brought this rescue</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">dog to mom and dad's. Mother, whose disease was a slow paralyzing of</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">her muscles, was totally bed ridden by this time. Even though her</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">mind was still in tip top shape, the illness was taking its toll on</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">her ability to communicate. Two things interacted at that time to</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">change destiny.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
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</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">The first had to do with the dog. It was not house broken and had no</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">clue how to go outside for its “business.” So here is this dog that</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">Elizabeth has brought into our parent's home where our mother is so</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">medically fragile that her life was being sustained by round-the-clock</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">oxygen and regimented breathing treatments. Elizabeth stayed for a</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">week or so while the dog was there. It wore diapers which she</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">changed. Then, she left, and left this untrained dog in our parents'</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">home, telling the care givers that they were to change its diapers.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">Daddy, even further into dementia by now, was incensed that a dog</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">should wear a diaper, so he took it off. The dog was peeing and</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">pooping all over the carpets and floors. The house smelled awful in</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">spite of constant cleaning.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
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</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">Two days after Elizabeth left the first care giver arrived at our door</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">early one morning. She was crying and, from the looks of it, had been</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">upset for a while. She announced that she would not stay in the house</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">with the dog. She made it clear that she loved mother and would do</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">anything for her, but she was not going to take her attention away</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">from mother to change a dog's diapers and clean up after it. Such</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">diversion could have been disastrous for mother. She said that</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">Elizabeth had told her that she had to do it, and that if she did not,</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">she could look for another job. “Care givers are a dime a dozen,”</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">Elizabeth had told her. I promised to take care of it.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
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</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">I called Elizabeth and talked to her. She listened, but would not</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">reply. She just held the phone and listened, then hung up. I waited,</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">thinking that surely her better sense would prevail and she would call</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">back. She did not.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
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</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">The next day both care givers (the weekly one and the week-end one)</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">came to see me. They both said they would quit if the dog did not go</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">away. Again I called Elizabeth to tell her how critical the situation</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">had become, but she did not answer the phone. I left the message on</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">her answering machine. She did not call back.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
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</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">The next day I was visited again by one of the care givers with</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">assurance that she was going to quit and that I needed to start</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">looking for another care giver for mother.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
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</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">You may say that I should just have let things remain as they were for</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">the sake of peace with my sister. You may think I should have allowed</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">this care giver to walk and have hired another one. But you would be</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">wrong. For those of you who did not know Remy, allow me a moment to</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">digress so that you will have a full picture of the situation.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
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</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">I had found Remy 2 years earlier. She was of Philippine descent and</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">was married to a young man who lived near Duffield. Remy was an</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">absolute marvel. She bathed my mother every day, changed her bedding</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">daily, changed her briefs (mother was incontinent by this time), did</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">her hair, put on earrings, put on her make up, and topped it all off</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">with bright red lipstick. I would go over to see mother, and there</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">she was in bed, propped up, watching tv, smelling like talc and</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">looking like she just stepped out of a fashion magazine. Remy loved</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">mother. She was never angry or sad, and was always talking, joking,</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">laughing. Barbara Gail and I are convinced that the reason our mother</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">lived as long as she did was due to the care of Remy and the other</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">care giver, Angela. Also, Remy was a worker. The house was always as</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">spotless as mother. In fact, it was the cleanest that house had ever</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">been.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
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</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">Angela was a different type of care giver, but a jewel in her own</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">right. She always did mother's nails in a bright red polish and kept</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">her hair dyed. Neither of these tasks was easy. Angela had to was</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">and dye mother's hair while she lay in bed. Sometimes, she would have</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">to tie mother's hand to the arm of the chair with cloth because it</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">shook so she could not polish her nails. But mother would have done</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">anything to have kept up that picture perfect image. She knew that</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">she was approaching the end of life and she wanted a quality to</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">compensate. Angela was attentive to her every need as well.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">Both of the care givers also took care of daddy. They had dealt with</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">Alzheimer patients before and knew how to calm him down when the rages</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">started. But neither could deal with him in the way that created the</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">second event that changed destiny: his falling victim to Elizabeth.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
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</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">Our parents had always done everything equally to all 3 of us</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">children. If they gave one something, they would give the other two</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">the same or of equal value. Even so, daddy always knew that mother</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">had no respect for Elizabeth and really did not like her. She felt</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">that Elizabeth manipulated daddy to drain them of money. Daddy, on</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">the other hand, was putty in Elizabeth's hands. She was always</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">fawning on him and he loved that. But Barbara Gail and I were a</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">different story. He never liked the strong will that Barbara Gail had</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">always presented, nor the fact that I had been a banker rather than a</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">farmer. It irked him no end that Barbara Gail and I would not pull</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">cedar saplings from the back 50 acres when we came home to visit.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">Elizabeth, on the other hand, always went back with daddy and would</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">spend at least a day helping him pull cedars. She was a girl after</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">his own heart. Of course, he never really liked that fact that mother</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">did not pull them either. He used to pine in private that mother</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">never helped him in the fields the way other men's wives did. I guess</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">the fact that she worked full time and kept house for 5 people wasn't</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">written anywhere in his book of the top 5,000 important things in a</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">marriage.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">So daddy started getting these phone calls from Elizabeth where he</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">would hold the phone for hours on end - listening. After those calls,</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">he would enter mother's bedroom and bend over where she lay in bed and</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">start yelling at her about something. Mother, who was frozen in bed</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">by her illness, was afraid and could do nothing to defend herself.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">The care givers would try to get him to back off, but during these</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">times he would not respond until his rant was spent.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">So I talked to daddy about getting rid of the dog. I mentioned about</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">his sister's dog that he gave away because he already had a cat. He</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">didn't remember that. I told him this dog was running off the care</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">givers. He responded by launching into a screaming rage about how he</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">could run his own household.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">Again, both care givers visited my house and let me know that neither</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">would stay unless the dog went. I called Elizabeth again and got her</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">answering machine again. I told her that Barbara Gail was here and</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">was headed back to CA the following day. Barbara Gail had agreed to</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">drive the dog to the Cincinnati airport to hand it over to Elizabeth</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">before her departure to CA. (Elizabeth lives outside of Dayton) I</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">told her that if she did not want it, the dog was going to the pound.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">Then, Woody, Elizabeth's husband called back and left a message. I am</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">not sure what Elizabeth told him (she always said, “Woody knows what I</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">tell him”), but he threatened me on the phone if I took the dog to the</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">pound.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">I called back. No answer. I told the answering machine that Barbara</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">Gail was staying at the Days Inn near the Cincinnati airport and would</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">be there from 5:00 until the next morning. I told Elizabeth that she</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">had the dog with her and was waiting for Elizabeth to come pick it up.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"> She did not.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">The next day Barbara Gail was faced with a choice: send the dog to the</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">pound before she mounted the plane, or buy it a ticket and take it</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">with her. She chose to do the latter.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
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</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">Elizabeth saw this as an opportunity. She convinced Daddy that we</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">stole his dog and got him so riled up that the two of them went to</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">court to get it back. After ????????????????????????? months in</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">court, a judge who just wanted all of us to go away ordered the dog</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">returned to daddy. Barbara Gail brought the dog back which by this</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">time she had successfully house broken. Daddy hated that dog (“My cat</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">is afraid of it”) but Elizabeth continued to program him that this was</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">his dog (even though she had said it was mother's) and that Barbara</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">Gail and I had stolen it.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
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</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">It was during this time that Elizabeth saw her opportunity for the</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">perfect coup. She drove our father to the lawyer's office and had him</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">disown our mother (his wife of more than 60 years), Barbara Gail, and</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">me, thereby leaving everything our parents had worked for solely to</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">her and her children. Fortunately, our mother had had the foresight</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">to see this coming years before and had taken daddy to deed all of the</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">property over to the 3 of us-to share and share alike. Right!</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
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</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;">Mother is still in ICU. Her oxygen/blood level is critical and it drops. Today, it was 92/93. That's low, according to Charlsie. Yesterday, it got up to 97, which is good. However, mother can not sustain that level without a full blown oxygen mask...which they put on, take off, put on, take off. Hopefully, mother will stabilize and come home in a few days. Charlsie can be at home with mother and help Remy, mother's caregiver.</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;">The problem, as ever, is sister Elizabeth. She's camped out in parents' house and has told mother that when Charlsie comes into that house she will quote/unquote "have to deal with me".</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;">There must be something you can do to insure safe passage to Charlsie so she can be with mother and help with her care. What would that be?</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
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</div>King Familyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04017471043462249637noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5888905655875554241.post-43390706928596922282011-01-17T16:22:00.000-05:002011-01-19T05:58:40.176-05:00War of the Roses<div style="text-align: left;"><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-size: small; vertical-align: baseline;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; white-space: pre-wrap;">Elizabeth King-Jones was very cunning in her behaviors. She learned to manipulate our father, who had a third grade education and had been diagnosed with vascular dementia and Alzheimer's in 2005 (but the neurologist said he had had it for several years) and a prior stroke. The medical report appears later in this blog. </span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; white-space: pre-wrap;"> When she saw that Barbara and I were to share equally after our parents passed (she took their wills), we began noticing behavior that we thought was bizarre, but now believe it was part of a plan that included the</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; white-space: pre-wrap;"> entire family on her victim list. </span></span></div></div><div style="text-align: left;"><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span"></span></span></span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: small; font-weight: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; white-space: pre-wrap;"><br />
</span></span></div><div style="border-collapse: separate; font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; white-space: normal;"></div><div style="border-collapse: separate; font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; white-space: normal;"><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-size: small;">There are so many incidents and we will attempt to include them all over the course of this blog. But one stands out as memorable. Our mother had been diagnosed with CBGD, a disease that ravages the brain and slowly paralyzes the body. Mother had 24-hour live-in caregivers and Elizabeth was furious. She and our mother had always had a rocky relationship. Mother had indicated to us on many occasions that she felt that Elizabeth manipulated Daddy to get things, and we saw Daddy in turn bully mother to see that Elizabeth and her children received things that mother really did not want to give. But, being mother, she chalked it up to life and kept most of it inside, only alluding to that dynamic as "Elizabeth and her children get plenty from us." So as mother began to fall victim to her illness, she became less able to fend off physical or emotional threats.</span></div></div><div style="border-collapse: separate; font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; white-space: normal;"><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div></div><div style="border-collapse: separate; font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; white-space: normal;"><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-size: small;">Thus the story of mother's roses. Mother had a garden of beautiful roses that she had used as her rose ministry. Mother had worked for years as a volunteer at the hospital. She hated living in Pennington Gap but she knew that it was my father's dream, so she made the best of what she deemed a bad situation. Everyday before her shift at the hospital, she would cut several vases of roses and take them to the hospital. Then she would see who was in the hospital and take them roses. If no one she knew was in the hospital, then she would pick some of the elderly patients and take roses to them. We lovingly called this "Athie's Rose Ministry. Each rose bush had been given to her in some memorable way...mostly presents from dear friends, some of whome had departed. She would tend her roses with such gentleness and love. Each one brought a special happy memory to her. </span></div></div><div style="border-collapse: separate; font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; white-space: normal;"><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div></div><div style="border-collapse: separate; font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; white-space: normal;"><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-size: small;">Mother had become unable to tend her roses anymore and daddy was deep into dementia. He got it in his head that watering the roses cost too much money, so he would not allow the roses to be watered. It was during this time that Elizabeth was still in Ohio and she would call daddy everyday and he would hold the phone for hours listening to her. After these calls, he was always disturbed and angry, screaming at everyone and just in general distressed and distraught. We believe that one of the constant conversation Elizabeth had with daddy was about the high cost of the water bill and that watering the roses just cost him more money. Daddy understood money. Because he had never had much of it, he hoarded every dime and pinched pennies until they squealed, so the connection in his demented mind was powerful. Caring for mother's roses equaled money. He was fixated on the water bill and would talk about it constantly, especially after Elizabeth's phone calls.</span></div></div><div style="border-collapse: separate; font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; white-space: normal;"><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div></div><div style="border-collapse: separate; font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; white-space: normal;"><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-size: small;">When he went to feed his cats at the barn each night, my wife would sneak over to the house and water the roses. Finally, Elizabeth moved in "to take care of my parents." She was livid that the roses were still living, so she dug up every rose bush with every beautiful memory that our mother had for each and piled them and set them on fire. Then she went to the store and bought new ones and planted them in the same devastated garden where mother could see them everyday...a daily reminder that Elizabeth was in control. While mother's mind was sharp as ever, she had lost the ability to speak. Barbara and I did not learn of this until one of the caregivers told us much later. For a wonderful woman who had given all to others her whole life, this must have been a grievous wound.</span></div></div><div style="border-collapse: separate; font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; white-space: normal;"><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
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</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><b>An initial call, early on, had been placed to shawn Hines, Lee County Prosecuting Attorney by Barbara Gail, but as to be expected, he listened for a moment, then hung up on her.</b></span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><b><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><b>Ultimately Preble County, while investigating as a theft by deception recognized they didn't have the funds to bring those involved to Preble County for a grand jury and suggested filing with the Lee County Prosecuting Attorney. </b></span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><b><br />
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</span></div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 16px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">Martin P. Votel, Prosecuting Attorney</span></span><br />
<div style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">101 E. Main St.</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">Courthouse, First Floor</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">Eaton, OH 45320</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><br />
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<div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">Dear Mr. Votel,</span></div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><br />
</span></div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">I am asking the Preble County Prosecutor's Office to investigate and confirm that Elizabeth King-Jones of Preble County embezzled $14,851.42 from long-term health insurance payments she invoiced and received, which had the intended purpose of reimbursing the salaries paid for the continued care of our father. The money was apparently used for Elizabeth King-Jones's personal use. </span></div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><br />
</span></div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">Unsure of the correct procedural path for filing a criminal complaint I copied Preble County Sheriff Michael Simpson.</span></div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><br />
</span></div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">I, Larry W. King, along with my older sister, Barbara G. Lochner, Rt2 Box 411H, Pennington Gap, VA 24277 were co-guardian and co-conservator of our mother, Athelene V. King, Rt2 Box 559, Pennington Gap, VA from July 2007 until she passed away January 20, 2009. </span></div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><br />
</span></div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">The younger and remaining sibling, Elizabeth King-Jones, 8213 US Route 35E, West Alexandria, Ohio 45381 has the durable POA for our father, Clarence King, who as of this writing, resides in Harborside Nursing Home in New Lebanon, OH.</span></div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><br />
</span></div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">Our parents both resided in their home in Pennington Gap, VA. Our mother was diagnosed with Cortico-Basil Degeneration (CBDG) in 2004. CBDG is a progressive disease gradually restricting movement, speech and paralyzing muscles, however, comprehension seemed to have continued with mother, but feeling more and more internally isolated until her death. In '04 and '05 our father began displaying symptoms of stroke and dementia until his first medical diagnosis of Vascular Dementia in October 2005.</span></div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><br />
</span></div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">Both parents had/have individual long-term policies with Genworth LT Insurance Company (formally General Electric) with a maximum dollar amount per policy, per day ($66-$80) to supplement the cost of in-home care providers. Each parent had, for at least 25 years, individual checking accounts. When it reached the point that both required 24hr care, the combined policies covered the full 24 hour provider cost. Barbara and I had oversight between 6PM and 6AM, meaning we paid the hourly rate, invoiced and reconciled those 12 hours per day. The invoices were reimbursed monthly. Ms Jones did the same between 6AM and 6PM. Between 9.17.07 and 3.07.08, Ms. Jones filed invoices, collected the money from the insurance company to reimburse the providers, and kept the money. Mother was completely bedridden and Barbara and I were forced to use mother's money to pay for the care providers for our father between 6AM and 6PM that Ms. Jones had invoiced and collected -but not paid- to the providers. The providers continued to oversee our father who, though ambulatory, required constant supervision, hence determined 100% disabled by the insurance company.</span></div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><br />
</span></div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">Mother's estate is being overseen by Karen Bishop, Esq., P.O. Box 4023, Wise, VA, 24293. Several attempts have been made to determine the whereabouts of the 14K, but as I understand it, the last response from Ms. Jones was, "The providers were paid twice". She doesn't have cancelled checks. During the time in question, Barbara and I were obviously well aware that they were not receiving money from Ms. Jones. </span></div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><br />
</span></div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">I have available all check copies from mother's account to show the full amount that Barbara and I paid to the providers. The providers will attest to the fact that at Ms.Jones request they continued to file invoices to the insurance company. The insurance company, I'm sure, has copies of the invoices, and check receipts showing the amount of money being transferred to the designated account Ms Jones had control of </span><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">for the purpose</span></i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"> of paying for care providers.</span></div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><br />
</span></div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">Mother has passed, but laws have been broken. As I understand it, embezzlement is misappropriation of money that a person is responsible for. Ms. Jones collected the money and did not spend it for the purpose for which it was paid. </span></div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><br />
</span></div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">I will present myself in Preble County with any materials to which I have access in order to support the above allegation. </span></div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><br />
</span></div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">Please be kind enough to provide me a contact in the appropriate office, so any additional written or phone information can be provided. Hopefully, a determination could be made by the end of January, 2010. </span></div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><br />
</span></div></div>King Familyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04017471043462249637noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5888905655875554241.post-2482778802638136182011-01-16T16:33:00.006-05:002011-03-20T15:57:05.366-04:00TagsLiz King-Jones, Elizabeth King, Elizabeth King-Jones, Clarence King, Athelene King, Tammy Williams, Woody Jones, Spring Hill Sales, C. Adam Kinser, Joyce Williams, Judge Tammy McElyea, Gregory EdwardsKing Familyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04017471043462249637noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5888905655875554241.post-27793779773404722592011-01-16T16:32:00.002-05:002011-03-17T07:52:28.227-04:00Elder Abuse - American Psychological Association - Office on Aging<h3 class="post-title entry-title" style="color: #333333; font: normal normal normal 18px/18px Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; position: relative;">Elder Abuse - American Psychological Association - Office on Aging</h3><div class="post-header" style="color: #999999; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 1.6; margin-bottom: 1.5em; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><div class="post-header-line-1"></div></div><div class="post-body entry-content" style="color: #333333; line-height: 1.4; position: relative; width: 528px;"><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><div style="font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><a href="http://www.apa.org/pi/aging/resources/guides/elder-abuse.aspx" style="color: #0000cc; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">http://www.apa.org/pi/aging/<wbr></wbr>resources/guides/elder-abuse.<wbr></wbr>aspx</a></span></div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br />
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</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Most elder abuse and neglect takes place at home. The great majority</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">of older people live on their own or with their spouses, children,</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">siblings, or other relatives-not in institutional settings. When elder</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">abuse happens, family, other household members, and paid caregivers</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">usually are the abusers. Although there are extreme cases of elder</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">abuse, often the abuse is subtle, and the distinction between normal</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">interpersonal stress and abuse is not always easy to discern.</span></div><div style="font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
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</i></b></span> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">There is no single pattern of elder abuse in the home. Sometimes the</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">abuse is a continuation of long-standing patterns of physical or</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">emotional abuse within the family. Perhaps, more commonly, the abuse</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">is related to changes in living situations and relationships brought</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">about by the older person's growing frailty and dependence on others</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">for companionship and for meeting basic needs.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif;"><br />
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</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">It isn't just infirm or mentally impaired elderly people who are</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">vulnerable to abuse. Elders who are ill, frail, disabled, mentally</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">impaired, or depressed are at greater risk of abuse, but even those</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">who do not have these obvious risk factors can find themselves in</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">abusive situations and relationships.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif;"><br />
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</span></div><div style="font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><strong><em>(Note: The caregiver would often go into mother's bedroom and Elizabeth would be standing over her saying, "I'm the good one, they're the bad ones.")</em></strong></span></div><div style="font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br />
</span></div><div style="font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><strong><em></em></strong></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Elder abuse is the infliction of physical, emotional, or psychological</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">harm on an older adult. Elder abuse also can take the form of</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">financial exploitation or intentional or unintentional neglect of an</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">older adult by the caregiver.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><br />
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</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Physical abuse can range from slapping or shoving to severe beatings</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">and restraining with ropes or chains. When a caregiver or other person</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">uses enough force to cause unnecessary pain or injury, even if the</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">reason is to help the older person, the behavior can be regarded as</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">abusive. Physical abuse can include hitting, beating, pushing,</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">kicking, pinching, burning, or biting. It can also include such acts</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">against the older person as over- or under-medicating, depriving the</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">elder of food, or exposing the person to severe weather-deliberately</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">or inadvertently.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"></span></div><div style="font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><strong><em>(Note: Elizabeth would hold mother's hand and forecfully smack her arm while she was talking to her. It was so bad at one point that the caregiver called the sheriff's office to report Elizabeth's violent behavior and was told, "We were told not to respond to calls from caregivers at this address.")</em></strong></span></div><div style="font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><strong><em><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">(Note: Our neighbor heard Daddy screaming "She's trying to kill me!" and came running. Daddy had long since forgotten how things worked and was on a walker. Nonetheless, Elizabeth decided that he should mow the yard on the riding mower. She had put him on it and started it for him. He had become confused and had driven it up underneath the back deck. He had gotten stuck and his whole body and mower was jammed so tight that the mower would not move anymore even though he still had his foot on the gas. Elizabeth was standing near the deck watching when our neighbor arrived and ran up underneath the deck. One of the caregivers ran out of the house and helped the neighbor get him out from where he was wedged. Daddy refused to go to the hospital, but shortly afterwards he ended up in the hospital with a staph infection from injuries and eventually was transferred to a nursing home for care.) </span></em></strong></div><div style="font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><strong><em><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">(Note: Daddy's neurologist told Daddy and Elizabeth that under no circumstances should Daddy drive again. We did not learn this until many months later. Elizabeth continued to allow Daddy to drive. Barbara, who was the court appointed guardian/conservator of mother at this time, did not renw the insurance or tag on the car which was in mother's name. Daddy kept driving. I purchased a boot and had it put on the steering wheel. Daddy called the man who did little favors for him in return for 17 acres of free hay (Steve Pennnington) to come over and cut off the boot. It ended up on my doorstep the next morning. Barbara then had a state trooper come talk to Daddy about not driving anymore, and he said the wouldn't. Shortly after that Elizabeth bought a van (her name but mother and daddy's money) and gave Daddy the keys. Within 24 hours, Daddy had driven the van through the back of the garage, through the back room of the house, and off the deck. The neighbor heard the commotion and came running. Daddy was making donuts around the barn. His foot was stuck on the gas and he could not figure out how to get it off. The neighbor ran alongside the van, snatched open the door and pulled Daddy to safety. Elizabeth had the van repaired and brought back. Daddy still had the keys.)</span></em></strong></div><div style="font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><strong><em><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">(Note: Mother was on oxygen 24/7 plus oxygen treatment every 2 hours. Her lungs would not expel. Barbara received a frantic phone call from the caregiver at the time. She said that Elizabeth had ordered her to take mother out to get some fresh air and park her on the porch under the pear tree while Daddy mowed the yard. Everything was in full bloom, the air was thick with pollen, and mother was having difficulty breathing even in the house. To have moved her outdoors under the pear tree at this critical juncture could have been lethal for her. Barbara -the guardian at the time-told the caregiver absolutely not.)</span></em></strong></div><div style="font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><strong><em><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">(Note: Mother was past walking and talking. Elizabeth had come down from Ohio for a visit. While the caregiver was in the bathtub, Elizabeth attempted to move mother and "accidentally" dropped her. She left her on the floor without telling the caregiver until the caregiver came into the room sometime later and found mother curled up on the floor. Elizabeth went back to Ohio and the caregiver did not tell Barbara or me what happened. Barbara was there a couple of hours later and mother had her eyes closed and was very quiet. The next morning when Barbara noticed that mother was moaning and crying, she querried the caregiver who told Barbara what had happened. Barbara called the ambulance to take her to the hospital. X-rays revealed no broken bones, but contusions around the hips and pelvic area -which may or may not have happened as a result of the fall. As a side note, the 5-day-a-week caregiver was TERRIFIED of Elizabeth and frozen with fear when Elizabeth and Daddy were together. As mother has said a thousand times, referring to Elizabeth and Daddy, "I can't fight both of them.")</span></em></strong></div><div style="font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><strong><em>(Note: Remy called Barbara and told her that Elizabeth had defiantly taken mother to WalMart (without Barbar's permission). This resulted in a major medical setback for Mother. She ended up on antibiotics for 18 days.) She also took her to get ice cream (windows down in the car, air blowing in mother's face). They were gone for 3 hours. Mother ended up coughing and congested, which rolled right into a diagnosis of congestive heart failure. She never recovered from that setback and began a slow decline in health from that point until her death.)</em></strong></span></div><div style="font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Emotional or psychological abuse can range from name-calling or giving</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">the "silent treatment" to intimidating and threatening the individual.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">When a family member, a caregiver, or other person behaves in a way</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">that causes fear, mental anguish, and emotional pain or distress, the</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">behavior can be regarded as abusive. Emotional and psychological abuse</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">can include insults and threats. It can also include treating the</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">older person like a child and isolating the person from family,</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">friends, and regular activities-either by force or threats or through</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">manipulation.</span></div><div style="font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><strong><em>(Note: Elizabeth had the sheriff' department throw mother's only living relative, her sister, off the property when she went over to visit. Charlsie was an RN and she and mother have always had a close, personal relationship, partly because the two of them depended on each other as children when their father was killed and their mother sent them to an orphanage, and partly because they both ended up in relationships with abusive spouses. Charlsie had divorced her husband but mother had never had the courage to do so because of what others might think of her. Still, she occasionally talked about her lack of having done so to those closest to her.)</em></strong></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><strong><em>(Note: Mother's sister, Charlsie, being an RN, had made a wall of pictures in mother's bedroom of those people and events in mother's life that had brought her joy...pictures of people and snapshots of events. Elizabeth removed all of the pictures from all of the walls and shelves in the house which were not of her or her family (pictures which were never seen again), repainted the wall in mother's bedroom, and placed large pictures of her and her family on the wall, on mother's dresser, and on all of the shelves in the entire house. She took away (also never to be seen again) all of the little gifts that her loved ones had given her, such as a special pillow Barbara had given her that she loved and called her "Chocolate Pillow". She visually erased mother's life.) </em></strong></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><strong><em>(Note: Elizabeth removed all of mother and daddy's personal papers from the house -they always kept them in a briefcase in the closet- and took everything in the safe deposit box and closed it out. The papers, which included notes on what their wishes were as well as their will, disappeared. Mother saw her take the papers and could do nothing.)</em></strong></span></div><div style="font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><strong><em><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">(Note: Elizabeth went through mother's closed in front of her in the bedroom and sorted through her clothes, taking everything that was nice. She left only a few of the old gowns. All of the new gowns, dresses, etc. that Barbara and Charlsie had purchased for her disappeared.)</span></em></strong></div><div style="font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><strong><em><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">(Note: Elizabeth perfected what Barbara and I called "The Quilt Walk." Anything large that could not be sneaked out of the house without someone seeing it would begin "The Walk." It would start in the room where the article was found. Suddenly and unexplicably, the article would appear out in the room on a chair, bed, or table. There it would sit for 2-3 days. Then it would mysteriously appear in the next room closer to the garage, usually the living room which was rarely used. Lastly, it could be found poised on the shelf above the washer/dryer. There it would sit for 2-3 days until one day, it was just missing. By them Elizabeth would have moved her car into the garage "to pack it". The garage door is 3 steps from the washer/dryer. Most of the valuables would disappear this way: quilts, afgans, clothes, pillows, pictures.)</span></em></strong></div><div style="font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><strong><em><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">(Note: The house phone was in the bedroom and living room. As mother became more bedridden, Daddy started to answer the phone and say that mother wasn't available to talk. This behavior started after the long listen phone calls started from Elizabeth. It continued to get worse and Daddy wouldn't let mother talk at all on the phone. To resolve the problem, Barbara and I had a separate line put in mother's bedroom next to her bed. Elizabeth told the guardian ad litem that the phone in the bedroom needed to come out because it created a fire hazard. When that didn't work, she tried unsuccessfully through the court to have it taken out. )</span></em></strong></div><div style="font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><strong><em></em></strong><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Financial exploitation can range from misuse of an elder's funds to</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">embezzlement. Financial exploitation includes fraud, taking money</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">under false pretenses, forgery, forced property transfers, purchasing</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">expensive items with the older person's money without the older</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">person's knowledge or permission, or denying the older person access</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">to his or her own funds or home. It includes the improper use of legal</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">guardianship arrangements, powers of attorney, or conservatorships</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Financial or material exploitation is defined as the illegal or</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">improper use of an elder's funds, property, or assets. Examples</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">include, but are not limited to, cashing an elderly person's checks</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">without authorization or permission; forging an older person's</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">signature; misusing or stealing an older person's money or</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">possessions; coercing or deceiving an older person into signing any</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">document (e.g., contracts or will); and the improper use of</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">conservatorship, guardianship, or power of attorney.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Cues That Cannot Be Explained Medically May Signal Elder Abuse</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Many of the symptoms listed below can occur as a result of disease</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">conditions or medications. The appearance of these symptoms should</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">prompt further investigation to determine and remedy the cause.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"></span></div><ul style="font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif;"><li><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> Emotional/Psychological Abuse</span></li>
<li><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> Uncommunicative and unresponsive</span></li>
<li><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> Unreasonably fearful or suspicious</span></li>
<li><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> Lack of interest in social contacts</span></li>
<li><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> Chronic physical or psychiatric health problems</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"> Evasiveness</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"> </span></span></li>
<li><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> Financial Abuse or Exploitation</span></li>
<li><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> Life circumstances don't match with the size of the estate</span></li>
<li><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> Large withdrawals from bank accounts, switching accounts, unusual ATM activity</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><div style="text-align: center;"><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div></div></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Family Situations and Elder Abuse<span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><br />
</span></span><div style="text-align: left;"><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Family situations that can contribute to elder abuse include discord</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">in the family created by the older person's presence, a history and</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">pattern of violent interactions within the family, social isolation or</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">the stresses on one or more family members who care for the older</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">adult, and lack of knowledge or caregiving skills.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Intergenerational and marital violence can persist into old age and</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">become factors in elder abuse. In some instances, elder abuse is</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">simply a continuation of abuse that has been occurring in the family</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">over many years. If a woman has been abused during a 50-year marriage,</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">she is not likely to report abuse when she is very old and in poor</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">health.</span></div></div></li>
</ul></div>King Familyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04017471043462249637noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5888905655875554241.post-64895577291583854962011-01-16T16:30:00.001-05:002011-01-16T16:30:38.066-05:00Barbara's Overview 10.10<div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;">From June, 2007 when Barbara Lochner was appointed as conservator for her mother, Athelene King, until September, 2008 when Ms Lochner was relieved of those duties in favor of attorney Karen Bishop, there has been one and only one persistent threat to the conservatorship, health, well being, and estate of Athelene King. That is the ongoing actions of Elizabeth King Jones.</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;">Ms. Lochner has brought these actions of Ms. King Jones before the court of both Judge McElyea and Judge Quillen in 2007, 2008 and 2009.</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;">In June, 2007, in Judge McElyea's court, and under questioning by Tom Rasnick, attorney for Ms. Lochner, Elizabeth King Jones stated that she had taken her father, Clarence King, into the office of George Cridlin, and had her father change his will to leave her everything. She was present the entire time. This information was later repeated in a deposition. Mr. King had been diagnosed with vascular dementia Oct. 05, and was on medication for Alzheimer's. This act disinherited his wife, Athelene, whom he had been married to for sixty-five year. The will did not mention wife Athelene but did mention he had two additional children he was leaving out of the will.</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;">October, 2007, Elizabeth King Jones took Clarence King, her (demented) father and husband of Athelene King, into New Peoples' Bank and Lee Bank and closed out all accounts in the name of Athelene King. Mrs. Athelene King became virtually penniless overnight. In January, 2008, in an accounting turned into Judge McElyea by Ms. Lochner, Mrs. King has less than $400.</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;">Judge McElyea eventually ordered Ms. King Jones to return the money in New Peoples' Bank belonging to Mrs. King. The money in Lee Bank was not ordered returned. This "shorted" Mrs. King's stated conservatorship $75,000 by approximately $8,000.</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;">It was eventually made known that Clarence King had given Power of Attorney to Ms. King Jones in February, 06, also in the office of George Cridlin. Again, Mr. King had been diagnosed with vascular dementia October, 05, and was on Alzheimer's medication.</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;">October, 07 to Febuary, 08 Ms. King Jones turned caregiver claims for Clarence King into the long-term insurance company, received reimbursement checks of approximately $14,000, and she kept the money. As these were 24 hr/day caregivers, Athelene King had to pay for Clarence's care as well as her own from her own funds. Son Larry Wayne King filed against Ms. King Jones in Small Claims Court, Jonesville, Va. Adam Kinser, attorney for Ms. King Jones, announced later in Judge Quillen's court that this matter had been settled outside court. It was never paid.</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;">Concurrently, Larry Wayne King filed against Ms. King Jones' /daughter Angie Brewster, for an outstanding unpaid student loan of $7,600. Mr. Kinser announced in court that this had also been settled outside court. It was never paid.</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;">October, 07, Ms. King Jones bought a van for $10,000 and decided to pay for it by stopping payments on outstanding loans to her parents, Clarence and Athelene King. This van was registered in the name of Ms. King Jones and her husband Woodroe. The outstanding loans owed to her parents were for the purchase of a new Lexus SUV and Toyota Truck. The payments were stated to be in the amount of $539 per month but Ms. Lochner could not find any bank records acknowledging any payments of this - or any other amount - from Ms. King Jones. There is no proof available that Ms. King Jones made any payments for these vehicles, totalling $80,000+, at any time. This was brought up in the court of Judge Quillen.</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;">It was further brought up in the court of Judge Quillen that Clarence King owed Athelene $1,000 for 1/2 sale of lumber, 1/2 of $250 per month rent on property, 1/2 of $1,000 fee for digital right of way across property. It was further brought up in the court of Judge Quillen that Ms. King Jones had removed a cargo trailer valued at $500/$600 and owed Athelene King 1/2 value.</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;">It was further brought up in the court of Judge Quillen that Ms. Elizabeth King Jones had filed 2006 & 2007 income tax returns without an authentic signature from Athelene King or her conservator Barbara Lochner. She (apparently) forged the signature of Athelene King. Ms. King Jones kept the tax refunds.</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;">September 17, 09, Judge Quillen ordered Ms. King Jones to repay Athelene King's estate half the student loan for daughter Angie, and Clarence King to pay Athelene King's estate for pay half for the timber, digital right of way, and rent. Ms. King Jones was to provide documents that she had paid the caregivers the $14,000. None of this happened.</div>King Familyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04017471043462249637noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5888905655875554241.post-84454929063300811042011-01-16T16:29:00.003-05:002011-03-20T15:57:05.367-04:00Preble County Prosecuting Attorney<div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;">May 7, 2010</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
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</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;">Dear Mr. Votel,</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;">My sister, Barbara Lochner and I are asking for assistance in determining that our father is not being physically or financially abused by Elizabeth King-Jones, our sister who has our father's POA. They are both residing in Preble County, Ohio, she at 8213 US Route 35E, West Alexandria, Ohio 45381 and we are unsure of his physical location within the county.</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;">Our parents are/was Clarence and Athelene King (decreased January 20, 2009). Our father has vascular dementia and Alzheimer's, mother eventually died of a stroke brought on by her primary symptoms of Cortical Basal Ganglionic Degeneration (CBGD).</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;">Elizabeth King-Jones has a history of aggressive behavior and abuse against our parents. The abuse is a combination of physical, mental and financial. This is meant as an overview of EKJ's behavior regarding our parents, culminating in mother's ad litem, based on her doctor's recommendation, contacting me to remove mother from the house she was sharing with our father and EKJ (next door) because of EKJ's threating behavior. To support this, the following is a chronological order of events including non-family third parties that can collaborate the below.</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;">1. October, 2005 our father, Clarence King was determined to have vascular dementia. Appendix A for Dr. Summaries.</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;">2. February, 2006 Elizabeth King-Jones drove from West Alexandria, OH, to Pennington Gap, VA and without my knowledge while living next door, took our parents to have a sole POA for our father and a co-POA with me for our mother. Appendix B is a copy of my POA for our now deceased mother (January 20, 2009).</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;">3. May, 2007 I visited the Lee County Health and Human Services Dept in Jonesville, VA and spoke with Pamela Farr regarding my suspicion that our sister, Elizabeth King-Jones was manipulating our father. Ms. Farr responded that the only way we could control this was to gain guardianship of our father.</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;">4. We went to court in May, 2007, when EKJ filed for guardianship and conservatorship of our mother. During that court hearing (where Elizabeth King-Jones-a resident of Ohio at the time and herself ineligible to be appointed) used a cousin as the co-guardian. Under questioning from our attorney, Elizabeth King-Jones told the court that she had our father change his will within the last 30 days to make her the sole heir, disinheriting his wife of 65+yrs and the two other children, Barbara and myself. Tammy Williams (the cousin) was appointed guardian until we could bring it back to the court a few weeks later when Barbara moved nearby from California and was made conservator and co-guardian of our mother. Appendix C and C.1 is a copy of EKJ's deposition taken in December, 2007 regarding changing the will and his mental health.</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;">5. September, 2007: Elizabeth King-Jones, for the next 5 months, collected a total of $14,000. from our father's long-term health insurance company-money paid to provide daily health care for him-which she kept. Therefore, Barbara and I had to pay the workers -part out of our mother's checking account and part out of our personal bank accounts -current investigation by your office.</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;">6. October, 2007: With the only car in mother's name, Barbara was able stop our father from driving because of his deteriorating condition. Elizabeth King-Jones, within 2 weeks, purchased a van with our father's money, brought it down from Ohio, and within 24 hours after being given the van he drove it through the back of the garage, a room on the back of the house, and the outside deck. He came within a foot of running over a caregiver and with inches of a tree. The neighbor who heard the commotion ran over and pulled him out of the moving van as it was going in circles in a pasture (his foot was frozen to the gas pedal). Appendix D is a picture of the aftermath.</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;">7. October, 2007: Elizabeth King-Jones, Tammy Williams and Clarence King removed $66,000 of mother's money that was co-owned by our father, but under court oversight and opened new accounts without mother's name, thereby stripping mother of all financial assets. It took a judge's demand to her attorney to have it returned 2 months later. Appendix E email of attorney correspondence.</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;">8. November, 2007: Elizabeth King-Jones with a duplicate set of car keys, left the parents house at 12:00AM and went next door to our property where my mother's car was being kept. She rolled the car into the middle of the road to attempt to make mother's sister(whom she would not allow to enter the house to visit my mother) think she did it accidentally. Our father admitted this to Angela Petry (276-, Pennington Gap, VA, the caregiver, and the neighbor, Misti McCowan, (276 Pennington Gap, VA 24277, that saw EKJ leave the house. There were two teenage drivers on the downside of the car position in the road who could have hit the car in the dark (no street lights, crest of a hill, high speed area). Appendix F, is a picture of the car in the road.<br />
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</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: red;">(see car picture on post date of 09.09.09)</span><br />
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</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;">9. December, 2007: Elizabeth King-Jones, without guardian's approval, removed mother from the house on a 3-hour car ride, in the winter, knowing that her diagnosis and condition was so fragile that it would be very dangerous. It was just one of a list of EKJ efforts to harm our mother. EKJ left town the next day prior to mother going to the hospital. Appendix G is Barbara's email to our attorney.</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;">10. May, 2008 Elizabeth King-Jones, as father's POA, sent Barbara and me an email saying that father had extremely high blood pressure and congestive heart failure and could not be put under any stress, therefore, mother's 83 year old sister, and a retired RN, could not come on the property because it upset my father. Said if my aunt came on the property that she would call the sheriff. See attached. In December, 2008, 7 months after receiving the aforementioned email, EKJ took our father, on a walker, and between the two of them threw 400 bricks, which had been there 5 years, approximately 10 feet into my rear driveway because EKJ said it was on "her" property.The property is joint owned by Barbara, EKJ and myself Dad has a life estate. Within several days my father was in the Intensive Care Uniy of Lee Regional Hospital.<br />
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</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;">My aunt did go over to see her sister. My father, well into Alzheimers now and egged on by EKJ's constant programming, grabbed my aunt and threw her to the floor in front of our mother. EKJ had the sheriff come and throw her off the property. The picture of the assault was taken at the sheriff's office. (see picture Appendix H and I)</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;">11. December, 2008 - Independent Home Healthcare, Main St., Jonesville, VA, 276-346-4420 cancelled their contract because the health aides assigned to help mother refused to go the the house because they were afraid for their safety due to EKJ's threating behavior.</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;">12. January, 2009 - I received a call from Joe Rasnic, Main St., Jonesville, VA, 276-346-4288, mother's court-appointed ad litem, saying he had talked to Dr. Scott Litton (mother's doctor) and they wanted mother removed immediately from the house because of ekj's threating behavior or they were going to place her in a nursing home. I moved mother and caregivers to our house next door. My mother passed away there 3 weeks later.</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;">June, 2009 - EKJ moved our father to Ohio. We found where he was in a nursing home and checked on him by phone regularly until he was moved. A worker on the phone commented that they didn't think he had any relatives as no one comes to see him. Now, we do not know where he is or what is happening. Based on EKJ's past behavior, we fear for his safety and the misuse of any remaining funds to provide for his continued care (she is sole heir).</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
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</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;">As emails and court documents emerge, the thread of Elizabeth's behavior will weave itself into a blanket of tragedy against our family. This blog is an attempt on the part of Barbara and I to leave a lasting legacy which may in some small part atone for our mother's last days.</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><br />
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<li>Glibness and Superficial Charm </li>
<li>Manipulative and Conning<br />
They never recognize the rights of others and see their self-serving behaviors as permissible. They appear to be charming, yet are covertly hostile and domineering, seeing their victim as merely an instrument to be used. They may dominate and humiliate their victims. </li>
<li>Grandiose Sense of Self<br />
Feels entitled to certain things as "their right." </li>
<li>Pathological Lying<br />
Has no problem lying coolly and easily and it is almost impossible for them to be truthful on a consistent basis. Can create, and get caught up in, a complex belief about their own powers and abilities. Extremely convincing and even able to pass lie detector tests. </li>
<li>Lack of Remorse, Shame or Guilt<br />
A deep seated rage, which is split off and repressed, is at their core. Does not see others around them as people, but only as targets and opportunities. Instead of friends, they have victims and accomplices who end up as victims. The end always justifies the means and they let nothing stand in their way. </li>
<li>Shallow Emotions<br />
When they show what seems to be warmth, joy, love and compassion it is more feigned than experienced and serves an ulterior motive. Outraged by insignificant matters, yet remaining unmoved and cold by what would upset a normal person. Since they are not genuine, neither are their promises. </li>
<li>Incapacity for Love </li>
<li>Need for Stimulation<br />
Living on the edge. Verbal outbursts and physical punishments are normal. Promiscuity and gambling are common. </li>
<li>Callousness/Lack of Empathy<br />
Unable to empathize with the pain of their victims, having only contempt for others' feelings of distress and readily taking advantage of them. </li>
<li>Poor Behavioral Controls/Impulsive Nature<br />
Rage and abuse, alternating with small expressions of love and approval produce an addictive cycle for abuser and abused, as well as creating hopelessness in the victim. Believe they are all-powerful, all-knowing, entitled to every wish, no sense of personal boundaries, no concern for their impact on others. </li>
<li>Early Behavior Problems/Juvenile Delinquency<br />
Usually has a history of behavioral and academic difficulties, yet "gets by" by conning others. Problems in making and keeping friends; aberrant behaviors such as cruelty to people or animals, stealing, etc. </li>
<li>Irresponsibility/Unreliability<br />
Not concerned about wrecking others' lives and dreams. Oblivious or indifferent to the devastation they cause. Does not accept blame themselves, but blames others, even for acts they obviously committed. </li>
<li>Promiscuous Sexual Behavior/Infidelity<br />
Promiscuity, child sexual abuse, rape and sexual acting out of all sorts. </li>
<li>Lack of Realistic Life Plan/Parasitic Lifestyle<br />
Tends to move around a lot or makes all encompassing promises for the future, poor work ethic but exploits others effectively. </li>
<li>Criminal or Entrepreneurial Versatility<br />
Changes their image as needed to avoid prosecution. Changes life story readily. </li>
<li>Antisocial Personality Disorder Overview (Written by Derek Wood, RN, BSN, PhD Candidate)</li>
<li>People with this disorder appear to be charming at times, and make relationships, but to them, these are relationships in name only. They are ended whenever necessary or when it suits them, and the relationships are without depth or meaning, including marriages. They seem to have an innate ability to find the weakness in people, and are ready to use these weaknesses to their own ends through deceit, manipulation, or intimidation, and gain pleasure from doing so.</li>
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<b><span style="font-weight: bold;">Sent:</span></b> Thu, July 27, 2006 3:37:52 PM<br />
<b><span style="font-weight: bold;">Subject:</span></b> your trip????</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: 'Courier New', monaco, monospace, sans-serif; font-size: 16px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: 'Courier New', monaco, monospace, sans-serif; font-size: 16px;">I need to take a trip to VA very soon...what are your</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: 'Courier New', monaco, monospace, sans-serif; font-size: 16px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: 'Courier New', monaco, monospace, sans-serif; font-size: 16px;">plans re visiting CA? Let me know ASAP so I can</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: 'Courier New', monaco, monospace, sans-serif; font-size: 16px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: 'Courier New', monaco, monospace, sans-serif; font-size: 16px;">schedule something. Daddy has had yet another TSA</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: 'Courier New', monaco, monospace, sans-serif; font-size: 16px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: 'Courier New', monaco, monospace, sans-serif; font-size: 16px;">(small stroke) - which invariably leads to a big one,</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: 'Courier New', monaco, monospace, sans-serif; font-size: 16px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: 'Courier New', monaco, monospace, sans-serif; font-size: 16px;"><br />
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</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">the "silent treatment" to intimidating and threatening the individual.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">When a family member, a caregiver, or other person behaves in a way</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">that causes fear, mental anguish, and emotional pain or distress, the</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><br />
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</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">can include insults and threats. It can also include treating the</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><br />
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</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">manipulation.</span></span></em></strong></div></div>King Familyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04017471043462249637noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5888905655875554241.post-18560832704454547432011-01-15T20:13:00.001-05:002011-02-07T15:10:24.789-05:00elizabeth/Woody<div class="ii gt" id=":dm" style="border-collapse: collapse; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 15px; margin-right: 15px; margin-top: 5px; padding-bottom: 20px;"><div id=":dn"><div class="gmail_quote"><div style="font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">Elizabeth lives in Preble County in Ohio. Barbara would fly into</div><div style="font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">Cincinnatti a couple of times each year and Elizabeth would pick her</div><div style="font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">up at the airport. The two of them would drive to Pennington Gap to</div><div style="font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">visit mother and daddy. On one of those visits, Barbara asked</div><div style="font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">Elizabeth why her husband never went to the farm to visit our parents.</div><div style="font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"> According to Elizabeth, her husband, Woody, could not bear to see how</div><div style="font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">daddy bullied and demeaned mother, so he never went to their house.</div><div style="font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">Elizabeth said that when the time came, she would probably take daddy</div><div style="font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">to Ohio to live with her and Woody. Barbara asked her how she could</div><div style="font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">do that when Woody hated daddy. She replied, “Woody will do what I</div><div style="font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">tell him. After all, he knows what I choose to tell him.” Also, when it was </div><div style="font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">brought up that Woody might have to tolerate dad, elizabeth said,</div><div style="font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"> "Woody will just have to put his big boy pants on.". Sure</div><div style="font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">enough, just a few months after mother died, Elizabeth took daddy to</div><div style="font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">Ohio. Over the next year, she and Woody came several times and</div><div style="font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">emptied out the house of all furniture, dishes, bedding, pictures, and</div><div style="font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">anything of value. They also took everything of value in the barn,</div><div style="font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">including daddy's tractor and farm implements, lawn mower, tiller,</div><div style="font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">mother's car, their rv, and a small utility trailer. What they left</div><div style="font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">was a basement filled with trash.</div><div style="font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">Elizabeth had the electricity turned off in the house when she moved</div><div style="font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">daddy and the basement is now filled with mold. This turned off the</div><div style="font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">dehumidifier and the basement, most of which is underground, wicked up</div><div style="font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">the moisture. ServPro estimates that it will take over $14,000 to</div><div style="font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">repair the damage the mold has caused. We are currently dealing with</div><div style="font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">attorneys to get this taken care of since Elizabeth refuses to allow</div><div style="font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">any of daddy's money to be used to pay to have it fixed, even though</div><div style="font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">it was his responsibility as a life estate holder to keep the property</div><div style="font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">in repair. (Note: As stated in other parts of this blog, Elizabeth</div><div style="font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">took our father to the attorney 4 years after she knew had had mental</div><div style="font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">issues and 2 years after he had been diagnosed with vascular dementia</div><div style="font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">and Alzheimer's and had him disown our mother and his other 2 children</div><div style="font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">and leave everything to Elizabeth.)</div></div></div></div><div class="hq gt" style="border-collapse: collapse; clear: both; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 15px; margin-right: 15px; margin-top: 5px;"><div class="hp" style="border-top-color: rgb(187, 187, 187); border-top-style: solid; border-top-width: 2px; height: 0px; width: 445px;"></div><div class="ho" style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 5px;"><b>4 attachments</b> — <a href="https://mail.google.com/mail/?ui=2&ik=b3d86140f4&view=att&th=12da61f95173f203&disp=zip" style="color: #0000cc;">Download all attachments</a> <a href="https://mail.google.com/mail/?ui=2&ik=b3d86140f4&view=att&th=12da61f95173f203&disp=imgs" style="color: #0000cc;" target="_blank">View all images</a> </div><table cellpadding="0" class="cf hr" style="border-collapse: collapse; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 8px;"><tbody>
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