Lipstick on a Pig

Posted by PicasaYou've heard the saying, "you can put lipstick on a pig". Translation is that you can try and make a pig look better with lipstick, but it's still a pig. She will never be able to buy enough lipstick to cover the person that abused my parents.


5.5.08c mother ekj falling, hospital, locked charlsie out of house

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I want something definitive regarding Judge Tammy"s ruling.  Wayne and I are tippy-toeing around and our sister is plowing through with a Mac Truck.
Word that she might loose guardianship of father due to bad behavior has not reached her.

Mother is on oxygen 24/7, plus has oxygen treatments every two hours.  Her lungs do not expel.  Two weeks ago Elizabeth wanted to take her out and park her under a pear tree in full bloom. While daddy mowed.  Do you have any idea what the pollen count is in the flats???  Under a blooming pear tree, surrounded by blooming dogwoods, etc.

Same visit, when the caregiver was in the bathtub, Elizabeth attempted to move mother, and dropped her.  She eventually had to have the caregiver get mother up...then drove off to Ohio.  I was there a couple of hours later and mother was extremely quiet, with her eyes closed.  The next day the caregiver told me what happened because mother had begun to moan and cry. I had her picked up via ambulance for x-rays.  She could not sit up at all.  The ambulance picked her up at 5 p.m. and she got home at 9:30.  No broken bones, but concussions around the hips and pelvic area.

And now Elizabeth has locked my mother's 83 year old sister out of the house.
And she's calling Dr. Litton, trying to take mother out for another ride!
The last "ride" just about killed my mother.  A three hour trip to get an ice cream!  That resulted in mother being diagnosed with "congestive heart failure".  Prior to that, a trip to Wal-Mart put mother on anti-biotics for 18 days.

What in God's name do we have to do with this situation???  I ask you.  Wayne and I both have consulted every last authority in Lee County and they all said "get your dad's guardianship'.  Well, that didn't work.

Please pursue what Judge Tammy had on her fluffy little brain.  I am willing to file for divorce on mother's behalf.  Or, something. This must end. I have had it.

Barbara Lochner, 

May 9,2008 Daddy's Condition

> From: Liz <lizkingjones@yahoo.com>
> Subject: My fathers health
> To:
> Cc: akinser@montgomerylaw.com, skwiselaw@hotmail.com
> Date: Friday, May 9, 2008, 2:49 PM
> Because my
> father has extremely high bloodpressure and CHF he is in
> danger of a stroke or heart attack if he is upset in any
> way. Because BOTH of my parents are important to me,
> Charlsie Stearly is not to come into this house or on
> the property, unless she has been invited.  I thought
> Officer Graham made that clear to her last Monday.
> I did give her a chance to visit Mother this morning
> while I was at the Cardiologist in Wise with Dad, but she
> declined.
> Wayne, I do not appreciate you putting Remy in a bad
> position this afternoon by sneaking Charlsie into the house
> while I was away.  She has been given instructions to
> call the Sheriff if Charlsie comes back to the house
> uninvited.
> If, I need to, I will seek a restraining order.

elizabeth, her attorney, C. Adam Kinser and Daddy's ad litem Gregory Edwards convinced the judge that Daddy's condition was serious enough that seeing Charlsie, Mother's sister could cause him to go into cardiac arrest.

Six months later elizabeth took Daddy to the intersection of our property, had our father put a cube (400) of bricks which had been there 4 yrs and move them 15 feet to my rear driveway.  Based on the above email, a reasonable person would conclude she tried to kill him.  Of course, again, after doing something resulting in them being put in the hospital, elizabeth would take off to Ohio, so if they died, she wouldn't be there, probably so she could blame it on a caregiver.  

In the middle of the picture is a vertical PVC post in the ground. This is where a cube of 400 brick were along with a cord of wood. elizabeth gave the wood away and she and daddy (on a walker) moved the bricks and dropped them in my rear driveway. Remy said Daddy fell 4 times. Daddy went to ER and then ICU.

In 2 days Daddy was in Intensive Care because of this.


Elder Abuse - Financial

Elder Abuse
Allan N. Schwartz, LCSW, Ph.D. Updated: Jul 7th 2007

 Financial exploitation is the fourth type of abuse and can occur at
the hands of family or strangers who learn how to prey upon what they
view as easy victims to be exploited. Ruthless and greedy family
members also prey upon their elderly parents and grandparents by
convincing them to turn over their money to them, ostensibly so that
they can oversee and protect the funds. Too often this becomes an
excuse to steal the funds for their own selfish purposes.